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by runningonfaith 28 Replies latest jw friends

  • runningonfaith
    runningonfaith

    hi everyone,been looking for some time,decided to register and give a little contribution.everything helps.in the wbts for 15 years,never bought everything ,some things just never clicked,i was "waiting on jehovah"but eventually things just went worst(or better)and stop attending meetings a year ago.my 3 kids (never baptised)could no be happier,wife still going once a week average,but things changed for her too.we're still in good standing,but i'm thinking of da myself,our familyes are all catholic,so no problem with the shunning thing for us.and for the friends in the truth(friends,yeah right)whatever........

  • zeroday
    zeroday

    I DA'ed myself after 28 years in the inside 4 years ago...like you I only had a hand full of JW cousins that live 2250 miles from me so it was no big deal...My suggestion DO IT...make the letter short and sweet no need to explain anything they don't care about your reasons only their legalize...besides you will be viewed as a lost sheep no matter what you write...Keep it simpe:

    "I disassociate myself, I no longer wish to be known as a JW"

    Period...

  • megawatt
    megawatt

    That right there is the biggest hurdle to overcome, SHUNNING. But who cares if your family is not in the WTBS, the so called friends show their true side. Welcome to the JWD...

  • Beta Male
    Beta Male

    ill be friends with anyone into wide panel tweeds

  • Eyes Open
    Eyes Open

    Welcome to the forum!

  • outofthebox
    outofthebox

    Welcome to the real world runningonfaith!

    You have it easy. You can just say good bye to the cult. Me? I am trapped. My family is inside. I am elder.

  • Thechickennest
    Thechickennest

    Hi and Welcome.

    Glad you are not all tangled up with witness relatives.

    Take Care

  • Poztate
    Poztate
    ,but i'm thinking of da myself,our familyes are all catholic,so no problem with the shunning thing for us.and for the friends in the truth(friends,yeah right)whatever........

    Hey...if you have no real family in just give them the FINGER and go... It gets a lot harder for people like me (insert tear ) who have relatives and family in the "truth"

    I could go...wife is a lifelong dubâ„¢ but what would it do for me? I regard this cult as a mental problem and if my wife has it I will stay with her and try to guide her out of it in teeny tiny steps...will it work....stay tuned..

  • yknot
    yknot

    alt.........Glad you have joined.

    Since you have nothing to loose I don't thing DAing is such a bad idea.

  • Hope4Others
    Hope4Others

    Sounds like you got it made already! Welcome to the board..

    h4o

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