DAMM this beach house

by oompa 22 Replies latest jw friends

  • Awakened at Gilead
    Awakened at Gilead
    so afraid my jw wife is not going to know what hit her.....kinda like [email protected]

    Heyyyyy! What does yer partying have to do with A@G... I don't have chicks w/ nipple rings around me... and I'm not drinking or doing drugs... I told my wife that as long as we are together, even if I do things without her and meetup with exJWs or "worldly" people, I am not going to be unfaithful to her... If we break up, then that is a different story...

    I agree with sweetstuff and changeling this time man... If you still wearing your ring, don't go so far.... it's not healthy...

    If you want to be free, do it. But don't be a two-timer... you'll give us apostates a bad name...

    I'm your friend oomps... but bragging about your craziness is not getting any praise from A@G.

    P.S. Sweetstuff, we can both kick him in the arse the same time...

  • amicus
    amicus

    "Ommpa sings: Love shack...baby love shack....love shack....baby love shack....Do you have a "Chrisler that's as big as a whale and it's about to set sail."" You people crack me up. I just dug that cd out last week and dusted it off looking for something that I hadn't heard in a while. Now you got that tune runnin' round my brain again. Time to import some B52's into my iTunes library.

  • babygirl75
    babygirl75

    Oompa, It doesn't sound like you are devastated & trying to save your marriage!!!!! It looks like you've made your mind up that it's over. If not; what are you doing?????? You need to be fair & upfront with your wife, not going behind her back. It's great you are having fun; but you need to include your wife!

  • sweetstuff
    sweetstuff

    P.S. Sweetstuff, we can both kick him in the arse the same time...

    I'm thinking there might be a line up.

  • oompa
    oompa

    hi all.....oompa will be back to reality soon enough.....wife was VERY invited to the beach but chose SAD! Had she come, It would have been a much calmer time with just the one dfd kid here.....and she would have put up with that too......I will go the the woodshed soon enough guys.......oompa

  • changeling
    changeling

    You are unbelievable! Now it's your wife's fault that you had no self restraint this weekend! What is she, your babysitter?

    You have every tool you need to get back on track and a loving wife to boot. You have it no worse than anyone else on this board and a heck of a lot better than some. You are choosing to screw up your life, plain and simple.

    changeling :(

  • llbh
    llbh

    You are unbelievable! Now it's your wife's fault that you had no self restraint this weekend! What is she, your babysitter?

    You have every tool you need to get back on track and a loving wife to boot. You have it no worse than anyone else on this board and a heck of a lot better than some. You are choosing to screw up your life, plain and simple.

    changeling

    Exactly Changeling which i why i hardly ever post on Oompa's threads

    Regards David

  • oompa
    oompa

    BELIEVE ME!!!!! I used PLENTY of restraint this weekend!!!!.....still faithful husband....but I have a feelng I needed a last blast of fun before a very very serious reality starts up........as in tomorrow......thanks for the arsekikin..........oompa

  • momzcrazy
    momzcrazy

    OMG guys!

    oompie, did you stay faithful?

    Did you enjoy yourself?

    Did you enjoy the time with your kids?

    Geeze, can't he have a nice weekend? Even I notice nipple rings!

    momz

  • sweetstuff
    sweetstuff

    Letter to Oompa: As someone genuinely concerned about your welfare, I have to tell ya, its time to wise up and take responsibility for your actions. We all have sob stories and horror stories alike and despite that, we try to move on, recognize that we cannot change the past and work towards enjoying our presents and futures. So, forgive me If I seem blunt but you do know me well enough to know that's who I am...........For pete's sake, face the fact that you really don't want your marriage to work and the whole barrage of threads saying that you do are just a cover -up for you. You don't want to face this fact I think because it means in your mind that you have failed 'again'. Get over it. Regardless of what your wife is like as a witness, the fact that she hasn't kicked you out despite the emotional instability, alcohol abuse and I am sure other things, hello, it means she does love you! If you dont' return that feeling (which I have said plainly before, I don't believe for a second you do) set her free!! Let her move on and you move on. Then you can party like there is no tomorrow with as many 20 somethings as you would like...which I find odd of someone mid 40's anyway. But its your life and if that's what you need right now, go for it, as long as you end the facade you are living now. And be honest with someone that god aside, you did promise to love and cherish and be faithful to. Your idea of faithful and hers may be very different. Do you have the right to decide for her, what is being faithful and what isn't?

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