That sounds like a good development (in terms of your husband's learning "the truth about the truth"). He's seeing the elders as uncaring and authoritarian, which they most often are.
I don't know if the C.O. will take his question very seriously either. The C.O. probably will think he has bigger fish to fry, and won't care about how a certain announcement was made.
People don't matter much in the organization, especially not backsliding unbaptized publishers.