Thank you everyone. I just wanted to make sure I wasn't missing something. The biggest reason I told her to buzz off is I didn't want my fiancee to have any reasons to be suspicious at all, she doesn't need to worry her pretty little head about me. This other woman doesn't have my current phone number and I don't have a home phone, so the only way she could contact me is via email or regular mail.
So an old "friend" emailed me today...
by bluesbreaker59 16 Replies latest jw friends
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changeling
You must have been the only half decent looking dub in Iowa!
changeling :)
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Hortensia
well, she keeps contacting you because you keep contacting her. If you really don't want any contact, then don't initiate any contact and don't respond to any contact. Each time you do, you keep the relationship going. Don't email her, don't respond to her emails.
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BabaYaga
Coolhand Warmheart has it sussed.
I am glad you are happily engaged and you certainly did the right thing here.
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Elsewhere
Maybe she just wanted to see how you were doing?
In my experience that is never the case. When a woman calls a guy out of the blue, its because she wants (or neeeeeds ) something. Dude, you are her "backup guy" she turns to when she is not happy with the d*ck that is f*cking her. Get her to put out before you even think about doing anything else with her. That will tell you whether or not she is trying to use you. If she starts trying to control you again, politely show her to the door.
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StAnn
There was a guy I was madly in love with who dumped me for another woman. Then he dumped her for another woman. It goes on and on. He contacts me (a) when he's between women and (b) when he's between his fifth and his seventh beer. He doesn't care that I'm married. He only cares about himself. Give me your old girlfriend's email and I'll hook them up with eachother, sounds like they'd hit it off.
StAnn
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bluesbreaker59
Hortensia,
I have not contacted her at all. She has initiated everything, ever since she broke up with me, due to her marrying some dude. My last email to her, was part of a mass email to a few witness friends, saying I was DF'd, in Feb 2007. I don't contact her, because:
1. Its inappropriate as I'm a very happily engaged man
2. I flat out can't stand her holier than thou JW speak it always drove me nuts.
3. I never, ever, ever, EVER want to be a brainwashed Dub again
4. I think she's got some issues
As a followup, she has never responded to my email telling her to lose my email address permanently, I'm guessing she got the message loud and clear.