I need some input (Migraines)

by Tired of the Hypocrisy 21 Replies latest jw friends

  • Tired of the Hypocrisy
    Tired of the Hypocrisy

    Does anyone know of any documented proof that long hair causes migraine headaches?

    The reason I ask is because my 16 year old son has this head full of curls. He also has what we believe to be bad migraines. He is a good guitarist and is growing it out like most rocker teens have the custom of doing. I think it is to mimic his musical heroes.

    Here is a bit of history. Of course, my wife opposes my son growing long hair, since her father does. Three or four months ago, my father in law started to pressure my wife and bring up his hair as a topic for discussion and how it is a disgrace for a man to have long hair. Her and I talked about it and I told her that he is 16 and trying to find out who he wants to be and is experimenting with different "looks" and will eventually moderate himself into what he will be. My son is a homebody, he doesn't drink alcohol, do drugs, or really do much of anything destructive except perhaps drink a little too much Nestle's Quik and cringe at his vegetables.

    Well then Dad approaches me and we talk about it and I tell him that frankly I do not have an issue with my son's hair and that when I do I will deal with it, but for now I approve. He was really cool about it and I thought the issue would be dropped. Nope, not to be. A few weeks ago we were at the doctor's office and he brings up that his brother approached him and told him that if he was my boys grandpa that he would have already straightened him out about it. Well, my father in law told him that it isn't his place to say anything since the boy has his father and the issue should be dropped.

    Well, on Monday my FIL tells me that his brother is still on a rant and he wants me to know that no matter how much pressure he gets, he will not interfere with my son. I told him that I appreciate it very much. Well apparently he has begun to interfere. Because on Wednesday I took my son to yet another doctor for his headaches. His pediatrician referred him to an excellent neurolgist over in Tulare. she gave him a very thorough examination and an extensive and detailed interview and found that he has a bad case of TMJ. She told me to buy him a mouth-guard, take him for an MRI, and then for some lab work and to return for the test results next month. I say that dad has begun to interfere because before disclosing the diagnosis and potential fix for his pain, my FIL comes over with a cure while we are still at the doctor's office.

    He tells my wife that he knew a guy at work and two of his sisters that had to cut their long hair in order to relieve their migraines. I couldn't believe that he is going there. He told my wife that between our skull and our scalp we have nerves, and long hair traps heat and burns the nerves, thus causing the onset of a migraine. Well, my lovely wife took this gem from her father and with the greatest of intentions told my boy. This is when we told her the doctor's findings. She is stuck on the haircut because her dad said. My boy is no dummy. He really doubts the claim as do I. especially since we just spoke with a doctor who showed us a reasonable diagnosis that he has TMJ and not migraines.

    So, my son and I have been researching online and I even went to my college library to find proof for this claim. The only connections between hair and migraines I can find are a study done on head position while shampooing your hair. Apparently, sticking your head in a basin will angle your neck so as to trigger a migraine. My son showers and shampoos in there. The other connection is having too tight of a ponytail will cause a tension headache......

    So, my plea to you is for any sort of proof or disproof that migraines are caused by long hair.

    Thanks for patiently reading this novel.....

    Here he is:

    Oh, by the way.....his hair is even longer than in this picture now and I have begun to grow my hair out in support of my son.

  • UnConfused
    UnConfused

    Nice to have a little weirdo drama isn't it? Long hair and migraines is about as kooky an idea I've heard. I got them for quite a while and the biggest ingredient in avoiding them for me is lots of water, good sleep, a very soft feather pillow, reasonable exercise and avoiding stress (goes back to the sleep thing).

    Good for your FIL and I would just confront the other guy and tell him to back off and mind his own business.

  • Tired of the Hypocrisy
    Tired of the Hypocrisy
    confront the other guy and tell him to back off and mind his own business.

    Oh wouldn't I love to. He is protected....Seems that my FIL does not want to be "Put in the middle" of this and doesn't want his baby brother to know he told me anything.

    He is the uncle I have spoken of here that has been a womanizing, wife abusing, drunken, foul-mouthed lecher that "deserves" respect and to be an elder. Whn I have been ready to fly at him my FIL grabs me and tells me that I can beat him and do whatever and he will just keep on doing what he does.

    So I retorted that it must be nice to be untouchable because he is retarded??? He should not be confronted because he won't learn? I am biding my time and hoping this a**hole says something to my son or to me.

  • Peppermint
    Peppermint

    I have suffered with migraine for about 15-20 years. I am becoming follicly challenged - the migraines aren't getting any better.

  • UnConfused
    UnConfused

    ps - I too have been without locks for quite a while and the headaches continued.

  • WTWizard
    WTWizard

    There is only one way to definitively prove that long hair and migraines have nothing to do with each other. That is to establish with what frequency and severity the migraines are happening now. Then giving the victim a haircut, perhaps even a crew cut. You will notice that the migraines are still happening with the same frequency.

    More likely, a good cleanse is in order. I would start with monosodium glutamate and foods that are sources of free processed glutamate. Hydrolyzed protein, gelatin, the caseinates, textured protein, yeast extract, and autolyzed yeast are certain to contain free processed glutamates. Remove them from the diet (you will have to read labels carefully). If the migraines stop or diminish, then monosodium glutamate was a contributing factor and should continue to be avoided (the stuff ruins your brain anyways, and therefore this step will not have any adverse side effects).

    Another thing to cut out is aspartame. Again, you will need to look carefully at labels. If you see aspartame or its cousin Neotame, you need it gone. Beware that it is in every type of chewing gum, even the sugared gums. If you are going to drink diet colas (and I do not recommend it), Splenda and Acesulfame K are safer than aspartame. (Stevia, which is not available in the USA as a food additive, is even better). Those two additives are responsible for all too many migraines. Notably, even healthy people would benefit from ditching those two additives.

    If you still have migraines, I would suggest taking magnesium. You are probably deficient (most Americans are), and about 500 mg of magnesium a day should help. The stuff is harmless, and the worst you can get from too much is a good case of diarrhea. A rule of thumb is, every 1000 mg of calcium needs 500 mg of magnesium to balance it.

  • delilah
    delilah

    I have thick, shoulder length hair, and it has nothing to do with my migraines.

    Migraines are caused from a variety of things, ranging from hormones, to food allergies, stress, and it can also be hereditary.

    My son used to come home from grade school, tell me he had a bad headache, collapse on the sofa for an hour or two, and wake up without the headache. He was later diagnosed with migraine. He also suffered from asthma as a baby. He has since outgrown both ailments, thank goodness!

    Thanx for the info on aspartame, WTWizard...I had no idea!!

  • Berean
    Berean

    Migraine headaches being associated with long hair, or any other hair style, would be the same as a superstition - or voodoo if you want to use that term. I have dealt with this for most of my life, which is 54 years. To take care of migraines see a doctor that is a specialist in this area. After trying numerous prescriptions the one that finally helped me was one that is for blood pressure (Benicar). If one medicine doesn't work another will need to be tested, and it can take a long time to find the right one. Also, once one is found to work, it can stop working for migraines after a while and another will need to be found. Migraines do not need to be something that has a high impact in a persons life. See a real doctor that specializes in migraines and be persistent. Do not listen to people that believe in superstitious ideas. Good luck,

  • nameless_one
    nameless_one
    He told my wife that between our skull and our scalp we have nerves, and long hair traps heat and burns the nerves, thus causing the onset of a migraine.


    I'm no doctor, but this sounds absurd to me. Rather than trying to disprove this wacky theory, I would instead ask him to PROVE it. Can he provide one shred of credible documentation to back this up? I seriously doubt it. Or you could run the "theory" by your son's doctor and ask him to share his professional opinion on the matter. Surely your wife would give more credence to an informed medical opinion than to some crackpot third-hand rumor.

    Sorry to hear about your son's headaches.

  • Junction-Guy
    Junction-Guy

    According to Amanda, long hair caused her headaches, she cut her hair short and supposedly it helped, whether so called scientists or doctors would agree, it did help her.

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