HSS, you said;
It was explained to me that since I left the apartment a mess, I must have had a fit of anger, which I did. They explained to me that that constitues "loose conduct" on my part. I was defensive and asked what right did they have to judge me on how tidy or untidy my apartment was. They took that as unrepentance.
Unless there are "details" that you left out, this has got to be one of the flimsiest excuses for ousting a person that I have ever heard of. I am sure many "in the world" could never believe that men could have such power trips!! Or that "loose conduct" can mean anything the super righteous elders deem it to mean. I hope the days are brighter for you now.