I agree with JK... there was no reason for some to get base or banal with their comments... except for the fact that they are still in pain themselves. For anyone to react so strongly and adversely to someone's happiness and healing... well... that's some pretty deep hurtin' goin' on.
I think that Maddie handled it beautifully. I know (from the way she worded her post) that she knew she would get adverse replies, but she was brave and healthy enough to post it anyway. Bravo and deep love to you, Maddie.
JK's quote was really very nice... it is something that I have examined in my own life,reactions, and mind... if I knee-jerk and even think something hurtful, I have to ask myself why? Why do I have a "block" to this possibility, this potential knowledge? If I do not keep an open mind, I am as dead... sorry, kids, we all spent way too much time in that "thinking is verboten" atmosphere, and I thought we were all glad to be rid of it.
I will end with one of my favorite quotes, by Albert Einstein: "Imagination is more important than knowledge." It is not what we know, it is what we are open to imagining that keeps us progressing in this life.
Love to all, (nay-sayers included),
Baba.