Your comments have stuck out like a sore thumb here. You commentary was not requested and not helpful in any way, except to try to make someone going thru hardship feel worse.
Lovedubs, I am sorry for what has happened to you. From ememory I do beleive I actually once read somewhere about this scenario...and the bank claimed the right to do what they did. I am not sure if it is legal though. Obviously the bank will claim it is legal. Definitely consult an attorney. I would not think a creditor can take you money unauthorized- even if it is owing them and in their bank. But as far as these legal technicalities I know nothing.
I wish you the best of luck.