I remember doing some research on the internet, using Strongs concordance and came across this article. I returned to it (guiltily a few times) and puzzled over the the bible verses this XJW couple were pointing to. I found it very helpful because they seemed to allow one to develop one's own spirituality which was so different from the way I'd been taught
http://www.blueletterbible.org/study/cults/exposejw/index.html
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