I always believed that ex-Jehovah’s Witnesses were simply angry malcontents who were obsessed with "trivialities" such as 1914 and 1975. This view came from the fact that the only ex-JWs that I did observe were those who picketed our conventions. Those who picketed conventions always behaved in an angry and anti-social manner - chanting slogans, and waving signs. Little did I know that I was observing less than 1% of the ex-JW demographic.
This is why I believe that the majority of convention picketers do more harm than good. If convention picketers are considered "losers" by Jehovah’s Witnesses, I believe that they have often earned it. They are often the only ex-Witnesses that active JWs ever see, yet their angry and caustic demeanors become the visual representation of what it means to leave the JW organization. I do not believe that shouting sarcastic slogans at people is informative. I believe that it is childishly self-indulgent.
Jehovah’s Witnesses need to see the vast numbers of those who have left the organization and who have maintained their dignity, humility, kindness, compassion; and who are happy. I believe that the work done by people like Ray Franz, Peter Gregerson, Ron Frye, Randy Watters, and Cynthia Hampton is having a very positive effect.