When a Woman's Fed Up.......

by Tatiana 22 Replies latest social relationships

  • Tatiana
    Tatiana

    When a woman's fed up.....

    A man comes home from work early to surprise his wife with
    flowers and candy and finds that she's already got something
    planned. The computer is on and there is note written on it. He sits
    down in front of the computer and notices his handgun on one side
    of the computer and on the other side, an empty container of pain
    pills.
    He reads the message:

    By the time you read this I will already be dead,
    so don't get too excited. Don't bother looking
    around the house for me either. Of course I
    didn't want my body where my children may see,
    for they have already seen enough. They have
    already had to endure far too many years of seeing
    their mother being tortured by the man they are
    supposed to look up to. But even though I know I
    am going to hurt them dearly, I cannot live like
    this anymore. So, I am taking these pain pills, prescribed
    for the kind of pain you inflict and I am
    going somewhere to take a nap.

    Don't bother looking for me, just sit there
    and do something that you haven't been able
    to do for the last ten years, listen to me.

    Now that I had to go and kill myself to get
    your attention, the least you can do is finish
    reading this letter. I have been writing it over
    and over in my head for years.

    Every time that you beat me I had to rewrite it
    to add to the horror. Besides I didn't want
    you to find me after I died because the thought
    of you touching me even after death turns my stomach.
    I refuse to let you touch me again, in life or death.
    I chose to die because I promised God when I married
    you that I would love you for life. And since I am more
    afraid of him than you, I chose death. I cannot love you
    anymore so I have to leave this place.

    As I look around to this house, you know its funny but
    I can remember the good times that we shared together.
    Before the babies, before the drinking, do you remember?
    I do, and it was good back then. It was almost good enough
    to give me a little hope that we could get back to those
    times.
    And they were good times. I guess I have to settle with
    the fact that no matter what's going on right now, you once
    loved me,
    and even you can't deny that. I think what hurts more than
    my ribs that are stinging me right now is the fact that I
    still love you. That realization is stronger than any fist you
    could ball up and hurl at me. Knowing that my love for you
    causes a stronger and more lasting pain is much worse than a swift
    kick in the groin from your steel toed shoes. But this is a
    pain that
    I can take care of, something that I can remedy.

    I am not into pain, even personally inflicted kinds, so I
    had
    to relieve myself. Even as I stood in the mirror this
    morning
    admiring the black eye that you gave me last night I knew
    you would never touch me again. And as I sucked blood from my
    split, swollen lips I knew I couldn't stand another blow from
    you.
    Not
    because of the fact that you promised with tears in your
    eyes
    that you would never do that to me again. Nor the fact
    that
    you put your hand on the bible and swore to me that you
    were
    going to get help. Not even the fact that you got down on
    your
    knees and swore to God that you would never lift a hand to
    me
    again. Well your prayers were answered and no, you will
    not be touching me again. I guess I just had to play God and make
    sure of that myself.

    Last night when I picked myself off of the floor and fell
    into
    your arms it wasn't because I wanted to, I just couldn't
    stand.
    It wasn't because I wanted you to hold me, as you may have
    thought. You picked me up carried me to our bed and lay on
    top
    of me and kissed my swollen face so soft and gentle.
    Even though you brushed my hair from eyes and kissed my
    eyelids,
    I didn't feel anything. And even though I may have moaned
    when
    you licked me between my thighs, I really didn't feel any
    kind
    of pleasure. And when you put yourself inside of me and I
    grabbed your butt and said your name a few times, I was
    just
    helping you get it over with. I moaned because your weight
    was
    on my stinging ribs. So what that you asked me what the
    fuck I was doing when I scratched your back, I felt the urge.
    And when you went to sleep, I laid there under you because
    I couldn't move. When you finally rolled off of me you were
    limp
    and you left your condom inside of me. The condom you
    searched
    all over for because you didn't want me to bleed on you
    like I did last time you kicked me.

    I woke up before you this morning and cooked your
    breakfast
    like
    I always do. I hoped you enjoyed the piss in your oatmeal
    and
    the blood I sucked from my lip mixed in your jelly. I
    watched
    you spread it on bread that I wiped my ass with before I
    put
    it
    in the toaster. I don't even want to tell you what I did
    with
    those sausages. I spit in your coffee and watched you eat,
    noticing the look on your face because you knew something
    wasn't right. And when you got through with your
    breakfast,
    I put your dishes in the sink but I wrapped the knife you
    used
    this morning in a napkin and put it in my pocket.

    After you left I laughed. I laughed all the way to the
    bank
    and took out every penny and took advances on all our
    credit cards. I donated half of the money to a woman's shelter,
    all one hundred and twenty thousand of it. Now, you can
    pay
    back all the other women like me, those who had the
    strength
    to
    leave their man. Let those women get a pool table or
    something,
    hell, they deserve it. I took the rest and put it away for
    my children. I left some money for Greg so that he can pay
    for the counseling he's going to need to reverse the damage of
    seeing his father slamming his mother into the
    refrigerator.
    I sent the rest to Dana in college so that she would never
    need to come back home when she graduates. You are never
    going to touch my children again, I made sure of it. No, I
    am positive that you will not touch them again.

    So, I figured that with me gone you would run over to
    your little woman's house and tell her the good news.
    So I went over there this afternoon and I killed the
    bitch.
    I stabbed her little backstabbing ass dead in her heart
    with
    the knife you used this morning. And since there was a lot
    of
    screaming and shit I knew that the police would be there
    soon so I took that nasty ass condom you left inside of me and
    stuck it up in her ass.

    I know you didn't actually kill her but you might as well
    have.
    It's your fault that she's dead, so why should anyone else
    take
    the blame but you. And since you killed her after you just
    got through fucking her it won't seem premeditated so you
    will
    probably just get manslaughter and spend the rest of your
    life
    in jail. They probably won't sentence you to death. But
    you will be ok. You got your high priced lawyers to defend
    you.

    The same lawyers that bribed a judge when they had you on
    charges of embezzlement from your firm. Remember you gave
    me those documents to shred? Well, I shredded most of them.
    I got up this morning and mailed the others I had saved
    out in the garage to the State's Attorney. And since you've
    already
    killed someone you probably are going to jail for a long
    time
    anyway, so those papers are probably not going to do much
    damage. But I had already mailed them before I thought
    about it.

    Damm, you haven't been this quiet in a long time. In fact,
    I can't even remember when you've been so quiet before. I
    guess if all that I had to do was die to shut you up I
    should have killed myself along time ago.

    So, since I got your undivided attention, for a change,
    let me tell you what I want you to do. On one side of the
    computer screen there is a gun with one bullet in it. On the other
    side is the telephone.
    You could
    A: Call the police, turn yourself in and go to
    jail
    for the rest of your life.
    Or,
    B: You can take that gun and join me.

    It's up to you.

    Don't worry about Greg, he is with your mother, you won't
    be seeing him again. You already killed your girlfriend so
    she'll do you no good either. You are about to lose your business
    and you are going to jail. Your wife will be mysteriously
    found
    dead in your office tomorrow morning. My body is still
    bruised
    and battered from when you beat me and your skin is under
    my
    fingernails from where I scratched your back last night.

    So shit doesn't look too good for you now. But as you
    said last night before you threw me into the wall
    I am a bitch. Well, ain't this a bitch. Oh, I know that
    you didn't think that I was going to die all by myself now did
    you?
    I already killed you motherfucker.

    You can either go to jail and get fucked up your ass for
    the
    rest of your life and have your man beat you around your
    jail cell like you did me. Until you die like me, after
    becoming the bitch you claimed me to be. Or you could take this gun and put one in your dome and kill yourself, it doesn't matter to
    me.

    Remember we said until death do us part right?
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    Moments pass. There is a click. One gunshot breaks the
    silence and
    his body hits the floor. The roses he brought begin to rise
    in a
    pool of
    blood that spreads across the floor like a fan. His wife
    steps out
    of the closet she was hiding in and calls the police.

    She steps over her husband, sits down at the computer and
    deletes
    the message on the screen. She brings up the suicide note
    that she
    wrote
    for him earlier. She gets rid of the empty pillbox and
    calls
    her
    mother-in-law to check on her children. She hangs up the
    phone and
    calls his other woman and hangs up. The women calls back
    several
    times but she didn't answer. The police will assume that
    the
    husband
    must have called her before he shot himself.

    She practiced all the lines out loud. When she heard the
    police pull
    up she kneeled beside the man that had once promised God
    that he was
    going to love and cherish her and felt nothing. That man
    was
    gone
    long ago and
    this body belonged to someone whom she didn't even know.
    She
    didn't
    feel any pain besides the tingling of her ribs. She had no
    regrets
    either. She put him out of his misery and ended her own
    misery with
    just one bullet.

    Yet, she knelt there and screamed like her life was over.

    My son sent me this story. He remembers my beatings from his father. My bloody noses and black eyes. Thank God in his 24 years he's never laid a hand on any woman. He didn't continue the cycle. He told me he wished I'd thought of this.....

    April
    *

    "Love never dies." Voivodul Vlad Draculea (from Bram Stoker's Dracula-1992)

  • think41self
    think41self

    My God April,

    You scared the shit out of me with that story. I thought you were trying to tell us you were going to kill yourself. Are you saying you are still with the bastard that beat you?

    think41self

    Holy Flying Screaming Buddha, Batman!

  • ashitaka
    ashitaka

    Jesus.....if you're fed up with someone, just kick him in the kookacheekees (scrotum)....that'll solve your problem right there...and Tats, were you serious a the end there?

    ashi

  • jayhawk1
    jayhawk1

    That story was......I don't have the words. My mother was verbally abused by my father. I have made sure not to ever do that with my lady. I told her even though she will never meet my dad, (died last year) I said if I ever raise my voice in anger, just say, you are acting like your father. I am sure that would put me in my place, because I never want to be like my dad. I see how my step dad treats my mother, and I love it. He is such a sweet heart, and I try my hardest to be more like him.

    April, thank you for posting this. It does make me think.

    "Hand me that whiskey, I need to consult the spirit."-J.F. Rutherford

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  • Xena
    Xena

    yikes April that was quite a story! Glad you are out of that situation! And so so sorry you or anyone else ever had to go thru it!

  • Tatiana
    Tatiana

    ash, yes, I was serious. My son, Christopher, sent me this in an email. He still remembers screaming at his father to stop hitting me. He says those memories have kept him from ever using violence on anyone. Which is usually the opposite of what happens.
    One of the reasons I left the society was because the elders wouldn't help me.

    Once he tried to put my hand to the iron.

    Think...no, I'm not with him anymore. I left him with two dollars in my pocket and three babies. The night he put a gun to my head did it. And worldly people helped me...NOT the witnesses. (Sorry I scared you)

    jay..you sound like my son. He feels the same way.
    I hope this story made some people think.

    April
    *

    "Love never dies." Voivodul Vlad Draculea (from Bram Stoker's Dracula-1992)

  • JT
    JT

    Too Deeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeep!

    I recall the first time i read that - it is just too deeeeeeeeeeeeeeP

    thanks

    james

  • Tina
    Tina

    ((((april))))))my gawd woman!1 I am so glad you are out of that....it took real courage to up and leave the way you did! Ans sometimes it gets to that,when your life is at stake. Thanks for sharing such a painful memory.luv,tina

    Vive Bene
    Spesso L'amore
    Di Risata Molto!!!

  • jst2laws
    jst2laws

    Tatiana,
    That story scared me. But the reality was probably worse.
    Your son, wow. He needs commendation from us and a hug from mom. You, double commendation for surviving.

    As to the inept elders, I could have been one of them. Its an inept system perpetuated by inept followers obediently playing as capable leaders. Some wake up to the truth with shivers. I’m one.

    Jst2laws

  • think41self
    think41self

    ((((April))))

    Wow, you impress me. Not only did you get out of an abusive relationship, which requires great courage...but you broke the cycle with your children. Your son sounds like a fine young man. Give him a hug for me, ok?

    And I'm glad you were able to find real help in your desperate situation. All the witnesses do for someone in that situation is pray for them, quote scriptures to them, and tell them to be regular at meetings ...Big Fricking Help that is!

    Tracy, who holds April in very high esteem now.

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