You will be referred to as an "opposing mate" or an unbelieving mate, said with a tone of pity to your wife.
Pretty sure I have already reached this 'status', the sister never calls our house, only communicates with my wife via her cell phone, and never when she is at home. I met with the sister and her husband (who happens to be the PO) and even though they say to ask questions, I think I asked to many for them, and some hard ones for them to answer, so they have pretty much written me off.
I understand what you say about GB headship, normally would not be a huge issue until the JW is baptized, but my wife was brought up around JWs, so already a bit of mind-control has been done, she refuses to read any non-WTS literature when it comes to spiritual matters, which makes it quite difficult to show her anything, and she is already 'enthralled' with the way the organization is willing to change when they 'learn new things from Jehovah'. I thought God is never changing.........
She has already said it is her duty to teach him what she is learning....he has had some problems in the past, and our neighbor could have called the police and had him arrested, but she agreed not to if he got counseling, well my wife feels a JW bible study will meet this requirement.....I am going to have a talk with the neighbor and have her ask if the counseling has done any good, she has no affinity at all for the JWs, so I know this will not be acceptable to her...at all......
