Dead Teen's Mom Testifies in MySpace Suicide Trial

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  • purplesofa
    purplesofa

    Let's see how this pans out.

    LOS ANGELES — The grieving mother of a Missouri girl told a jury Wednesday how her daughter hanged herself with a belt after receiving cruel messages on her MySpace account, some of which were from a boy whose identity was later revealed to have been invented by a neighbor.

    Tina Meier recounted how "Josh Evans" interacted online with her 13-year-old daughter, Megan, during the first day of the trial against Lori Drew, who is accused of taking part in the Internet hoax that prosecutors say led to Megan's suicide.

    Meier said after a name-calling exchange between Megan, "Josh," and two other girls in October 2006, she told a sobbing Megan, who was being treated for attention deficit disorder and depression, that she wasn't supposed to be online and shouldn't have gotten into the argument.

    "The last words she said to me were 'You are supposed to be my mom, you are supposed to be on my side,"' Meier said as she tried to hold back tears.

    Meier said she ran later upstairs and found Megan hanging in the closet with a belt around her neck. She died the next day.

    Drew, 49, has pleaded not guilty to one count of conspiracy and three counts of accessing computers without authorization. Each count carries a potential sentence of five years in prison.

    In his opening statement to jurors, U.S. Attorney Thomas O'Brien said Drew helped create "Josh's" false identity on MySpace to learn if Megan was spreading malicious rumors on MySpace about Sarah Drew, the defendant's then 13-year-old daughter.

    O'Brien said the evidence will show Drew opened the MySpace account and "fully intended to hurt and prey on Megan's psyche."

    For the first time, O'Brien disclosed what Megan wrote after allegedly receiving a message the day she killed herself that said the world would be better off without her. Megan sent a response saying, "'You are the kind of boy a girl would kill herself over,"' O'Brien said.

    Prosecutors said it's the nation's first cyber-bullying trial and its results could set a legal precedent for dealing with the issue of online harassment.

    Defense attorney Dean Steward told jurors Drew did not violate the Computer Use and Fraud Act — used in the past to address computer hacking — and reminded them she was not facing charges dealing with the suicide.

    "This is not a homicide case," Steward said.

    Before the trial began, Steward tried to get U.S. District Judge George Wu to forbid mention of the suicide. Wu rejected the request but instructed jurors the case is about whether Drew violated MySpace's terms of service, not about whether she caused Megan's suicide.

    After jurors were dismissed for the day, Steward unsuccessfully requested a mistrial, saying the emotional testimony was "totally improper in a computer fraud case."

    Prosecutors said Drew conspired with her daughter and Drew's then 18-year-old assistant, Ashley Grills, to invent "an attractive male teenager" on MySpace to find out what was being said about Sarah.

    Meier said she was concerned about "Josh," who had contacted Megan in early September 2006 wanting to be her friend. She added she thought her daughter was developing feelings for "Josh," but when there was a conversation that may have had sexual overtures, Meier contacted local authorities about the teen boy.

    "Something wasn't right," Meier testified.

    Local authorities never pursued the incident, Meier said.

    Steward countered it was Grills who set up the MySpace account and his client was driving home when the message about the world being a better place without Megan was sent. Grills has been granted immunity to testify.

    The case is being prosecuted in Los Angeles because MySpace computer servers are based in the area.

  • Big Tex
    Big Tex

    As despicable as this woman's actions were, and I do believe she manipulated this girl into suicide, I'm not sure if this law is the proper venue for charging her. This is uncharted territory, using the Internet like that. It might have been better if she were charged with homicide, using the computer/Internet as a deadly weapon. But I'm no lawyer.

  • purplesofa
    purplesofa

    At first there was no law in Missouri to indict. This indictment came years after the suicide took place. Now it is about violating MySpace rules.

    http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,356291,00.html

    The mother of a teen who hanged herself after being spurned by a fake boy on MySpace is "thrilled" that a federal grand jury indicted her neighbor for her role in the creation of the profile.

    "I'm thrilled," Tina Meier told FOX News on Friday. "She should have faced criminal charges from the very beginning, and unfortunately the state of Missouri did not have any laws that could convict Lori Drew."

    Drew, of Dardenne Prairie near St. Louis, was expected to turn herself in on Friday, according to a MyFOXSTL.com report. She's been charged with one count of conspiracy and three counts of accessing protected computers without authorization to obtain information to inflict emotional distress on Tina's 13-year-old daughter, Megan.

    FBI agents in St. Louis and Los Angeles investigated the case, Hernandez said.

    Federal officials said Drew will be arraigned in St. Louis and moved to Los Angeles for trial. Her lawyer, however, said Drew did not have to surrender in Missouri, but would be arraigned in early June in Los Angeles.

    The indictment says MySpace members agree to abide by terms of service that include, among other things, not promoting information they know to be false or misleading; soliciting personal information from anyone under age 18 and not using information gathered from the Web site to "harass, abuse or harm other people."

    Drew and others who were not named conspired to violate the service terms from about September 2006 to mid-October that year, according to the indictment. It alleges they registered as a MySpace member under a phony name and used the account to obtain information on the girl.

    Drew and her co-conspirators "used the information obtained over the MySpace computer system to torment, harass, humiliate and embarrass the juvenile MySpace member," the indictment charged.

    The indictment contends they committed or aided in a dozen "overt acts" that were illegal, including using a photograph of a boy that was posted without his knowledge or permission.

    They used "Josh" to flirt with Megan, telling her she was "sexi," the indictment charged.

    Around Oct. 7, 2006, Megan was told "Josh" was moving, prompting the girl to write: "aww sexi josh ur so sweet if u moved back u could see me up close and personal lol."

    Several days later, "Josh" urged the girl to call and added: "i love you so much."

    But on or about Oct. 16, "Josh" wrote to the girl and told her "in substance, that the world would be a better place without M.T.M. in it," according to the indictment.

    The girl hanged herself the same day, and Drew and the others deleted the information in the account, the indictment said.

    Last month, an employee of Drew, 19-year-old Ashley Grills, told ABC's "Good Morning America" she created the false MySpace profile but Drew wrote some of the messages to Megan.

    Grills said Drew suggested talking to Megan via the Internet to find out what Megan was saying about Drew's daughter, who was a former friend.

    Grills also said she wrote the message to Megan about the world being a better place without her. The message was supposed to end the online relationship with "Josh" because Grills felt the joke had gone too far.

    "I was trying to get her angry so she would leave him alone and I could get rid of the whole MySpace," Grills told the morning show.

    Megan's death was investigated by Missouri authorities, but no state charges were filed because no laws appeared to apply to the case.

    The Associated Press contributed to this report. MySpace is a subsidiary of News Corp., the parent company of FOXNews.com.

  • Big Tex
    Big Tex

    You know, this is one of those cases where I've always wondered how this woman lives with herself. I mean how does she do it, day after day, know she is responsible for the death of a child?

  • purplesofa
    purplesofa

    I know BigTex, I don't know how she lives with herself either, I did read that she and her family moved from their house (the two families) lived in the same neighborhood. That they did not know where they were going and came down on the price of $229,000.00 of their house.

    It's unbelievable to me that initially, there was nothing to charge this women with. And even now it's come to only a MySpace violation.

    I have tried to keep up with this case, like everything else that seems to be going wrong these days, no one wants to accept responsiblity or accountability.

    Missouri has now passed a law since this has happened.

    Here is the article from FoxNews

    http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,356464,00.html

    EFFERSON CITY, Mo. — Responding to the suicide of a Missouri teenager who was teased over the Internet, state lawmakers Friday gave final approval to a bill making cyber harassment illegal.

    The bill updates state laws against harassment to keep pace with technology by removing the requirement that the communication be written or over the telephone. Supporters say the bill will now cover harassment from computers, text messages and other electronic devices.

    It was approved 106-23 in the House and 34-0 in the Senate and now goes to the governor.

    Republican Gov. Matt Blunt issued a statement praising lawmakers for passing the measure.

    "Social networking sites and technology have opened a new door for criminals and bullies to prey on their victims," he said. "These protections ensure that our laws now have the protections and penalties needed to safeguard Missourians from Internet harassment."

    Many of the bill's provisions came from a special gubernatorial task force that studied Internet harassment after the media last fall reported on the details of Megan Meier's suicide.

    Police say the 13-year-old St. Charles County girl hanged herself in 2006 after being teased on a social networking Web site.

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    A neighborhood mother, her 18-year-old employee and 13-year-old daughter are accused of creating a fake profile of an attractive teenage boy to determine what Meier was saying about the daughter online.

    The mother, Lori Drew, 49, was indicted in California on Thursday on federal counts of conspiracy and accessing protected computers without authorization to get information used to inflict emotional distress on the teen. An attorney for Drew said a legal challenge is being planned.

    Click here for more on the criminal case.

    Missouri police didn't file any charges against Drew in part because there was no applicable state law. Sen. Scott Rupp said Friday there's no way to be sure his legislation would have guaranteed a conviction, but it would have allowed prosecutors to continue investigating without having to ship the case to a different state.

    "Without a good, quality cyber stalking and harassment law, which we don't currently have, we have to go to federal courts in other states to make a stretching leap argument," said Rupp, R-Wentzville.

    State Sen. Harry Kennedy, D-St. Louis, said the law is "definitely a warning shot for those folks who want to use the Internet for harassment."

    There was no immediate response from Meier's parents, Tina and Ron Meier. Tina Meier earlier this year testified before a Senate committee urging lawmakers to pass the bill.

    Under Rupp's bill, repeat offenders and someone who is at least 21 years old could be charged with a felony and face up to four years in prison if they harass a minor. Other instances of harassment would remain a misdemeanor with penalties of up to a year in jail.

    The bill also requires school officials to tell police about harassment and stalking on school grounds and expands state laws against stalking to cover "credible threats" not only against the victim, but also family and household members and animals.

    Currently, stalking is a misdemeanor, but the bill would let someone be charged with a felony and face up to four years in prison if they stalk more than once, make "credible threats," violate a court protection order and violate their probation or parole by stalking.

  • sammielee24
    sammielee24

    I'm not sure how her family is coping either.

    The woman was way out of line...way out of line. She deserves a penalty and it should set a precedent - after all, this was an adult and we expect our kids not to bully?

    I had seen the woman on television afterward in an interview and she didn't come across as sympathetic or humbled. She appeared to believe that it was a joke and the kid was just dumb enough to believe it. I'm not sure how I would react if I found out that the person I lived with were so cruel, unthinking and immature that she would play this sort of joke on a kid. I wonder if there was any penalty such as counselling or community service in the form of public speaking about her actions, that are being forced on her. Making her address teens and parents in a public forum, as part of community service against cyber bullying, might make her punishment more palatable as she would be forced to both admit her part in the girls death every week while attempting retribution at the same time. sammieswife.

  • JeffT
    JeffT

    I can't believe this woman did this. I also saw her on TV and she seems unable to comprehend what she did or why it was wrong.

    I think we should make it a crime to lie about your age on the intenet. It might give the authorities the ability to go after creepy 45 year olds pretending to be sixteen BEFORE they hurt some one. And it might also give them a vehicle for telling 13 year old's that telling people they don't know that they're 18 is a bad plan.

  • mama1119
    mama1119

    I think that woman was just awful. She had a Daughter that same age, why wouldn't she think about how something like that would have affected her daughter. She was not a parent at all. I don't know how she wakes up in the morning.

  • Fadeout
    Fadeout

    It's primarily the fault of (a) the girl for being a moron and killing herself, and (b) the girl's parents for raising a moron. There I said it.

    Somehow billions of people have made it past age 13 without doing themselves in despite the fact that some people are mean and hurtful. What a miracle, huh?

    I would consider the woman's actions to be along the lines of harassment at most. Maybe a civil suit. But sending her to prison for this is just ridiculous.

  • purplesofa
    purplesofa

    I really can't believe the comment I just read from Fadeout.

    still shaking my head.

    purps

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