This is amazing stuff ,what shows the cult influence is the number of people who have suffered a similar tirade.
I got the same almost word for word from my "loving" Bro.in Law who said "Enjoy the rest of your life" "Your dad must be spinning in his grave"
"it's so sad your sons have no one to lead them now" and other encouraging words.I think if I wasn't at the time certain that it was a cult that I
could never return to I would have been after that conversation.
Love
wobble