"Worldly" is generally a complement...
While I was with my non-JW relatives and my mom, one of the relatives used the word "worldly" in a positive way... I pointed this out to my mom, and she was surprised at the use of the word.
Apostate is also a loaded word. My non-JW aunt introduced me as an "apostate" to another relative, and he (a Catholic Minister) didn't flinch. My mom thought he would and was surprised when he didn't. She could see the use of words... good thread
I posted this on another thread about the meaning of "worldly". I thought it fit here as well...
There's the JW definition of "worldly" and there's the normal definition of "worldly"...
Dictionary definition: of, relating to, or devoted to this world and its pursuits rather than to religion or spiritual affairs
Definition of 'worldly-wise' which is listed under 'worldly': possessing a practical and often shrewd understanding of human affairs
The second definition is closer to what I think of when someone not influenced by JWthink uses the term 'worldly'
Under JW definition, anyone who isn't a JW is "worldly". Even baptized JWs who act without regard to JW standards will be called "worldly acting"...basically an insult. "Worldly" is a buzzword with the JW crowd so as to set everyone not part of the JW system as bad or evil.
I think to be called 'worldly' is a compliment...once you're free of the JW influence.