Mine was simply the realisation that if a person had faith they wouldnt need a religon.
Infact not associating with any religouse association is a bit like being on the oceon in a rowing boat. But the thing is I dont care if the oceon gets rough. It doesnt matter not having the answers. Actually not having the answers is okay its much more interesting finding the questions.
And whist life may not be perfect being free to think critically makes life wonderful.