I've a new date!:-)

by Newborn 27 Replies latest jw friends

  • Elsewhere
    Elsewhere

    Elsewhere, clarify Girl Game?

    When a guy is able to seduce women, he has "Game".

    When a girl can seduce men, she has "Girl Game".

  • mrsjones5
    mrsjones5

    Hm, why is "Little Red Corvette" coming to mind

  • ninja
    ninja

    see that wee dot in the distance...that's your guy in a couple of days........oh there's two dots.............

  • Mrs. Fiorini
    Mrs. Fiorini

    Newborn,

    I don't know your background, but if you're like me and raised in the WT, you've had it drilled into you that dating is only for marriage and you'd better figure out if you could marry him before agreeing to go out on that first date (fully chaperoned, of course). It's really too bad we were taught to think that way.

    Once I left the WT, I still found myself only dating men that I felt I could be seriously interested in. This can be a real handicap since you often don't know if you could be seriously interested in someone until you've gone out with him and gotten to know him a little bit.

    Despite it all, Mr. Fiorini and I were somehow able to get together. So don't give up hope.

    It's not easy having WT baggage to carry around is it?

  • AudeSapere
    AudeSapere

    Whoa!! Cart before the horse. Slow down and breathe a little.

    A date is not a marriage proposal. A date is really just two people hanging out for a evening. Nothing more, not much less.

    From your recent posts, sounds like you are not ready for marriage right now so why bother thinking about it. How fun to just go out with different people without any expectations or judgements? Just people that you think you might enjoy spending an hour or two with. If that goes well, do it again.

    Just have a nice time and stay in 'the now'. If you start thinking too far ahead, you are highly likely to trip up and ruin something that might actually be good.

    Enjoy!

    -Aude.

  • Nathan Natas
    Nathan Natas

    I can't begin to tell you how much you dissappoint me.

    From the subject line, I thought you were going to tell us when Armageddon was going to start.

    What a letdown.

  • LouBelle
    LouBelle

    Enjoy the date for what it is...

    Leave the marriage and thoughts of that alone...even a just in case. Cross that bridge when you get to it.

    Man I should definately come visit you - may just get to date - where are you meeting these men....there just arent any around this neck of the wood. They are either too young or gay or have girlfriends already.

    perhaps I'll find an american...don't know if I could leave Africa...well as long as I can come on holidays...yes I'm good to relocate.

  • Newborn
    Newborn

    Satanus, I am thinking of sex also believe me!!

    Mrs. Fiorini, totally agree, thanks. (haven' thought abt it like that but of course we're a bit screwed by our background I guess). I'm learning as I go...it's my 3rd date since I left JW in July...

    Loubelle, I've met them thru work and on internet. I can really recommend internet dating!! There are lots of nice single men here, pls feel free to come visit me any time, I'd get you hooked up in a sec

    Nathan, sorry to disappoint u

    Aude, thx for your comment:-)

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