Lady Lee,
I know what you mean about age helping you see what is important. I have four kick-ass little grandkids - all five or under. I tell my kids that one of the great things about this time of life is understanding that a lot of stuff that you thought was REALLY important when you were young turned out to be nothing, and stuff that you thought unimportant is really vital.
Ah, the blessings of wisdom. All my best to you.
S