i am sick today so spent a lot of time on jwd and saw several posts about whether or not elders would take action against a fader or not....it brought to mind an interesting and powerfully told story a CO told us that alway stuck in my head...faders should find it very interesting and i hope this does not catch on...............oompa
"A sister/mom had a daughter that was very loved in the congregation....for some reason she left the truth for a couple of years and even lived with her worldly boyfriend, but she was not disfellowshipped and her family did not shun her in any way....the elders did not complain as she was deemed to be "no threat to the congregation," and many in the congregation did not shun her either since she was perceived as "no threat to the congregation"....even the elders liked her and talked to her everytime she came to the memorial....very friendly with her.....life was good and this went on for years....it was as if she was was still part of the congregation....not a threat at all. This sounds like a happy, wonderful arrangement doesn't it friends? No pain, no discomfort, no problems at all for this former servant of Jehovah, or her family or congregation. Then she died in a traffic accident.
Everyone was devastated, the family and those in the congregation. But what did the family now want? A funeral service at the Kingdom Hall of Jehovah's Witnesses! Well the elders discussed it and looked into the matter and it was just not possible as she had been living in sin and was no longer part of the Christian Congregation, and so the family was informed of this. The ENTIRE FAMILY and many of her closest friends in this congregation were so stumbled by this that they have never been in the Kingdom Hall again! Satan certainly won a victory here! FROM THE GRAVE THIS FORMER SISTER WAS A THREAT TO THE CONGEGATION!!!!!! (big applause)....These elders FAILED to protect their flock! God will decide if they are now blood-guilty."....you could have heard a pin drop............................oompa
kinda curious if anyone else ever heard this dramatic story