I think the most important lesson I have learned is:
I am in control of EVERYTHING I THINK, FEEL, and DO.
It is all a choice. If I don't like my life, I can make different choices. They won't be easy, but it is possible!
In less than 10 years I went from being an Over 300 lb. depressed spinster virgin to a curvy 160 lb.(or so ....)adored wife and mother.
I had to change the way I thought about almost everything .... food, men, the borg ... myself and my sexuality ..... but by some miricle (I want to call it Grace) I realized that I could change how I thought.
I am glad to wake up in the morning ... and I wouldn't trade this life I live for anything in the world .... my only prayer is that my loved ones are kept safe and I get to live this way and think this way for a very long time.
BobsGirl
"May the work of your hands be a sign of gratitude and reverence to the human condition." - Mahatma Gandhi