Aaaaaaaand I'm off to New Zeland

by Elsewhere 14 Replies latest jw friends

  • Elsewhere
    Elsewhere

    http://www.stuff.co.nz/national/295808

    No dating, thanks, just sex
    Sunday Star Times
    Last updated 05:15 02/03/2008

    Dating culture is dead - instead, young New Zealand women are regularly getting drunk and cruising around in packs looking for men to have sex with.

    That's one of the findings of a TVNZ Sunday investigation into the sexual behaviour of New Zealand women. The programme makers did the story after Kiwi women last year topped the Durex Sexual Wellbeing Global Survey as the world's most promiscuous.

    They are reported to have an average of 20 sexual partners, double that of their Australian and British counterparts and almost three times the global average of seven.

    TVNZ Sunday correspondent Janet McIntyre said there was anecdotal evidence from the five women on the show that the Durex survey findings were valid.

    "There's a new kind of mating ritual sex is the point of entry into the relationship."

    If the first-up sex wasn't any good women weren't prepared to waste their time progressing the relationship.

    "There's no dating culture any more." In candid interviews about their sexual experiences some of the women who are all in their twenties felt empowered by having sex and wanted to celebrate and enjoy it.

    McIntyre said all the women who had experienced one-night stands had been affected by alcohol, a term described by at least one expert in a report as "getting pissed and hooking up".

    Men are also feeling the impact from the new sexual tactics being employed by women.

    The Sunday Star-Times' Being a Bloke survey last year found that 29% of the 5000 men surveyed felt they had been pressured into having sex or had had sex unwillingly*.

    * Buahahahahaha!!!

  • jamiebowers
    jamiebowers

    Elsewhere, you better not go to New Zealand. We don't want you to feel pressured to have sex with drunken girls in their 20's. Heaven forbid!

  • jeanniebeanz
    jeanniebeanz

    Dang... Don't do it, Elsie. They'll carry you off and we'll never hear from you again!

    Jeannie

  • steve2
    steve2

    As a New Zealander, I'm trying to think of the last time this happened to me. Um, let me think now...NEVER.

    But seriously, it's good that researchers now ask males the same questions they've asked females for decades, including questions about coercion and pressure.

    Remember the days when feminist polls quizzed females about negative sexual experiences and we'd learn that (for example) high %s of females had had numerous negative experiences. This conveniently created the impression that males never had those sorts of experiences. But when the same questions were asked of males, the surprising result was that males too reported feeling sexually exploited and pressured. Sure, it still elicits laughter (whereas the same question asked of females are taken more seriously when reporting sexual victimization than when males report the same. It could also be a generational product: Older males tend to deride males who report being pressured into sexual activity by females, whereas younger males show greater cognitive flexibility regarding issues of vicitimization and coercion.

  • Robdar
    Robdar

    You are going to New Zealand?

    I will alert the sheep.

  • Black Sheep
    Black Sheep

    If you are lucky, you might be able to watch it HERE

    Cheers

    Chris

  • LouBelle
    LouBelle

    Elsewhere I'm coming with you!!!! I need to learn a thing or two from these girls - need to lose some inhibitions and just dive in and not worry about the whole dating thing.

  • Big Tex
    Big Tex

    I didn't know New Zeland could be so full throttle!

  • daniel-p
    daniel-p

    I don't think it's too much to ask to spell the name of a country correctly.

  • Elsewhere
    Elsewhere

    > I don't think it's too much to ask to spell the name of a country correctly.

    Sorry, my brain was suffering from low blood levels when I posted this.

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