Hello all, I'm looking for some expert(s) on philosophy, specifically ancient philosophy. The short story is that I don't want to raise children within a specific religion, but I'd still like to raise them with a philosophical underpinning for the important ways to live life. I've been looking at some ancient philosophical systems that encompass my core beliefs. Specifically I've been considering Stoicism as fairly well-founded and rounded. I think the most important issues I want to emphasize in any philosophical system are individuality, respect for others (regardless of social status, race, sexual orientation, etc), but also a strong sense of right and wrong with a reasoned system for determining what is right and wrong. I'm not interested in views of right and wrong that involve a deity's arbitrary determinations, but reasoned philosophical underpinnings, such as why harming others is wrong, why stealing is wrong, etc.
Can anyone offer any assistance or places to look for finding the right philosopher for me?