I agree with steve paranoia rules, even if some elders have taken it on themselves to get proof of infidelity so a spouse can get a scriptural divorce etc these are clearly few and far between. I never saw any evidence of this in fact as a witness elders simply don't have the time for these shinigans in between preparing for meetings and other duties. Most elders I knew were dedicated very busy men. I often wonder if some ex-elders on here are simply that because they were 'burned out' because it is hard work being an Elder.
Can any ex-elders confirm on here how busy they were and if they had time to stalk etc?