You can use this if you like:
The family was whole, and would be still, until you decided to listen to some bad advice from old men in Brooklyn that you don't even know and accepted their clearly erroneous interpretation of scripture. They told you to ignore the natural affection family members have for one another, an instinct put into us by Jehovah, and to hate your brother, a concept that goes against several scriptural laws.
The family will be made whole again when you wake the f@ up.