bonafide:
Snakes you lucky dog
very true... I did go on a date with her today, we spent the day together. No we did not spend the night together, and don't ask those questions as I know some of y'all will...... LOL.
We had a very nice time. Yes, there will be a second date. This one ended entirely too soon.
I will tell a story here later on...no time right now. That whole 6 degrees of seperation? Zero in our case. Though we have seen each other for 3 years at her current place of work (the bakery/cafe I frequent, we never really talked beyond customer/employee before recent). We believe our paths crossed about 20 years ago. For certain I know her mother...I used to work with her mom...and this gal used to work in the building next to mine for the same company.
Maybe it is too much to ask or expect....I have a favor to ask of those on facebook where my real name is posted. Every single one of my friends on facebook is from here (JWD) or JWS except one. I have my security settings for only friends of friends, so my profile is not out there for the world to see, just part of it.... I run a risk even having a facebook page. Call me paranoid...tendrils remain...
This one exception on Facebook was never a JW and is a friend who I met through eHarmony...we never clicked romantically, we never dated, but we do remain good friends. It would be very hurtful I think if people from JWD started asking me how my date went all over my facebook wall and she sees that. So please don't ask on facebook...here is fine, JWS is fine, those are different circles that my eHarmony friend doesn't run/post in....... it may come up one day ...and if it does.....I want it coming from me. I can't stop you if you do. I just ask for kindness to a friend...she is going through a tough time in her life...and her dating life sucks worse than mine.... And if the gal I went on the date with seen me posting about our date on facebook, I dont know how that would go over.
But yeah, today was good.
Snakes ()