I have to wonder what actually is in their heads,
I called a former elder who I like and who lives close to my mother and asked him to do me a favor. Her phone was off the hook for the entire day and I got worried that maybe she fell or something. So while I was at work I called this guy and asked him if he could possibly check on her. (Besides, he is "assigned" by the elders to check on her well being). He said he had tried to get her service report and got a busy signal too. He said he would immediately go over and see if she was ok. (She was. She just knocked her phone off the hook by mistake).
The next day he related to my mom how I said, "Thanks buddy for doing that for me". He deduced that I "must feel guilty"
He then asked my mother if I helped her out much and she told him that if it wasn't for me she wouldn't know what she'd do. She said, "he's ALWAYS there for me".
Once again, I have to wonder what goes on in the brain of a JW. Why would he believe that I must be guilty of something??? It seems like all Witnesses are on a guilt trip. I dunno.