Should I stay or should I go?
by The Berean 15 Replies latest jw friends
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dinah
Gotta love The Clash!
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babygirl75
If I go there will be trouble
An if I stay it will be double -
abbydear
It's always tease, tease, tease,
Your happy when I'm on my knees
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The Berean
I am married to a JW who will not confront me as to her upset that I have given up the faith. She is however, passively agressive; constantly ignoring my thoughts and ideas , giving greater weight to comments made by her fellow believers, and constantly monitoring and pointing out any erros on my part. She, to my recollection refuses to accept responsibilty for anything. She is unhappy and I am tired of pretending that I don't think that she is druging her pain with the church.
Question: Even though she works hard in providing material support, would it be better to call it a day and move on, allowing her to find someone with whom she believes she might spend "eternity" with OR should I suck it up and accept the bad with the good. Also, Am I depriving myself of emotional contentment by remaining and allowing her to look down on me? Of course there are other factors with the situation but I am starting with the most crutial issue.
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Chalam
Hi,
Like Moby says, "Go!"
All the best,
Stephen
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wobble
I ain't no MGC but I say follow your heart!
Love
Wobble
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dinah
We had the same thought. . .
Scary!!!
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Dagney
I'd say look to yourself and what do you really want for your life. Look one, two, five, ten years ahead, and how do you see your life. Then make the choices that work with your own personal goals. You can do and suffer anything if it goes along with your own core.
There are several on here who have made it work with their mates in. They have some great strategies.