I just want to share a bit of Stevenson's perspective of life after the Witnesses:
Since leaving the Witnesses, I have experienced a gradual changeover of ideas which is now, except in the few points which I have just explained, almost complete. After all this time, I find it's a delightfully refreshing experience to be able to formulate and hold opinions which are my own, expressions of my own personality. In some respects I feel like a butterfly, which has just emerged from an over-long stay in its chrysalis, and is now learning to fly. In my relationships with people, I no longer try to 'pigeon-hole' them as I had always done before. I try to listen to their views with respect and interest, where before I would have summarily dismissed them. It is as if life has suddenly acquired a new and exciting dimension. I find my present work as a sales representative helpful in this respect, because every day I am meeting all sorts and conditions of men, and now that my mind is open and receptive to the ideas of others after being closed for so many years, I am eager and happy to learn, and in my work I am learning rapidly every day. It is, I suppose, a development--an enjoyable phase of life--which would normally be experienced in the late teens. I am experiencing it now because of my arrested development, but I think that the experience is more enjoyable now than it would have been in my late teens because I have the maturity to evaluate and appreciate which I would have lacked then. My enjoyment of life has vastly increased since leaving the Witnesses, and I can honestly say that I am happier today than I have ever been in my life. (Page 204)