I wish my wife, who is studying with a jw right now, would realize that if she keeps moving along, once baptized about the only thing she will be allowed to do is sell literature, she will be amongst the lowest of the low
I can't help but believe she will eventually see it, hopefully sooner then later.
As i memtioned above, the sisters with UBM that I knew were all very aware of there statis in the congregation, they still believed it was the truth, but they felt like outcasts.