Sacred, thanks for your insight. I will try to use that lovingly. As I have with girlfriends who I knew were marrying the wrong man....I'd ask them...."Are you marrying because you love him, or becuase you're in love with the idea of being married?" I will ask these people, "Are you in love with all of the Jehovah's Witness teachings and beleifs, or are you in love with a system that provides an absolute and sometimes comforting answer to every life situation and an instant friendship circle based on your adherence to the rules?"
Thanks!