I Finally Feel I'm Ready to Move On (some adult themes) (page 2)

drwtsn32

I, unfortunately, never got passed the smack-her-on-the-butt-and-run-away phase

So that's the mistake you made on your recent dates!

(figuratively, of course).

Oh, never mind. :)

neverendingjourney

So that's the mistake you made on your recent dates!

lol...thankfully I have a little more sense than that. I think I now understand what actually went wrong in both cases, but I can't really tell go into details without giving too much away about myself.

Leprechaun

Wow Nancey, I give you permission to go on with your life, I had to go down at the corner store and by more Miller beer just to finish your thread.

neverendingjourney

Thanks for making it through the end.

jamiebowers

It always astounds me just how much damage this cult can do, so I just have to give my two cents.

First of all, in general some women are more emotional than men. Particularly, most women may be more emotional than you, but only because you had to supress your emotions for so long. Second, both of your recent dates were on the rebound...not a good thing. Third, sex involves mechanics, but making love is an art. If you wait until you get to know a woman and develop feelings for her, you will see her as an individual. Then you can learn what she likes sexually by ASKING her, and act accordingly, because all women are different.

I know you don't see your sexual inexperience as an asset now, but I'm pretty sure it will be a real turn on for many women. God, I don't have enough time to tell you all of the stories that many of us have about the guy who goes charging into the bedroom like a bull fighter and winds up only pleasing himself. Plus, if you're dating women around your age, they're just coming into their own, as women generally don't peak sexually until their early to mid thirties. You may also find it stimulating for your partner to tell you what to do while in the act of love making.

neverendingjourney

Thanks for the advice, Jamie. You make a good point about these girls being on the rebound. Maybe I haven't been taking that into account as much as I should. It's certainly not a big enough sample size to draw definitive lessons from, but at the time it really took the wind out of my sails.

At this point in my life, I feel like I'm walking around a huge room in complete darkness trying to find the door, so I'll take all the advice I can get.

jamiebowers

At this point in my life, I feel like I'm walking around a huge room in complete darkness trying to find the door, so I'll take all the advice I can get.

Every woman is a mystery. You really are thinking too mechanically about this. There are many women who would find it very enjoyable for a man to say, "Teach me how to make love to you." Believe me, a lot of guys who think they know what they're doing, don't, and never bother to ask. And not to add to your turmoil, but most men worry about size over technique and longevity when in reality it usually should be the other way around.

Sending you a pm.

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aSphereisnotaCircle

You make a good point about these girls being on the rebound.

My husband says the rebound guy never gets the girl.

Keep trying. trust me, many women would find your inexperience very attractive.

quietlyleaving

you'll find someone special - but it will take time and lots of interaction with women.

take a look at snakesinthetower's experience

LouBelle

Thank you for sharing your story. I can relate!

I've left you a PM.

I Finally Feel I'm Ready to Move On (some adult themes)

Wow Nancey, I give you permission to go on with your life, I had to go down at the corner store and by more Miller beer just to finish your thread.

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