it is so much easier to just say "i may be able to talk about it later, but i am stepping down for some very personal (or personal family) reasons, i'm sure you understand"......then be done with it....if any asshole would ask for details......you say, "as i said, it is very personal and i am not able to talk about it right now....maybe later".....which is a very kind way a person having a prob says myob!!!..........see........keep is simple!!!.........oompa.
this is exactly what i did when i changed halls and would not accept reappointment......nobody every bothered me about it
they prob thought it was a masturbation problem........hey!...you may want to use that!....'me and my wife are both porn addicts and we masturbate all the time".......lol