It's a year later but I had to do this......
I just reread this entire thread....not much has changed except I have moved Mom in with me and my family where we can keep an eye on her...she is happy here and is getting healthier and her mind is getting better.
A for the sisters, they still cannot tolerate each other. But one thing I wanted to state here is this:
A few posts back I mentioned the one sister siccing her husband on me? He wrote me a nasty letter on behalf of what he heard from my sister...?
I got a letter of apology from him a few months later retracting everything he said, and blamed it on his wife...my sisiter. That apology meant the world to me. But she does not know he did that.
OK, end of thread. Thanks everyone. This all needed an ending.