Along the lines of Kudra, I too read many of your posts BonaFide, but don't really have much to say. I take note, and decide if there is anything I can relate to, that perahps I can draw from.
I'm assuming that you MUST have some good "non confrontational" moments with ones in your congregation as well? I wouldnt imagine it to be too long before different ones get to talking about various conversations? You have balance of sorts somewhere in there?