I get the feeling many x-jws are floating about aimlessly and don't join Christendom, still living with the JW indoctrinated belief that they are all the work of the Devil. Does that make sense? Are they supposed to sit around in small groups in their living rooms reading Scripture like Ray Franz recommended in Crisis of Conscience? Do they seek to form their own new religion?
This is my take on it:
I am purposely floating around. I currently sit in my living room every chance I get, esp on Sunday morning. I sometimes read scripture, CoC, Sports Illustrated, and books. This Sunday, I hope to watch Tiger Woods win his 4th British Open. It will be on at 8:00 AM EST.
The true church implies you already have your mind made up, you're just looking for what fits you. That is great for you.
There is no one church for all JW's to go to, only what you find for you. It appears you have already made your mind up as to what is true for you, you only need to finish your individual journey.
Remember though, a refreshing trait of ex JW's is their individuality. (even if that means we don't always agree... but that was never the point was it?) There is more then one way to tango.