While I do agree that posters should not be hounded, nor insulted for the way they think - I do not believe that they should not be called out when they in turn insult the integrity, experience and knowledge that others have. For example - a current JW may say unequivocally that the WTS does not have anything to do with child custody cases and when faced with the hard truths about the actual interference and instruction, from real experiences and real knowledge of these cases from people, they may continue to insist that it either doesn't happen or it doesn't happen much or it can't happen because they haven't seen it and everyone who is on the board is apostate anyway so you can't believe them.
It must be dialogue honored from both sides but in no way should an apologist be allowed to downplay the experiences of those around them either. sammieswife.