Is there encouragment and hope for the disfellowshipped?
From the Society or the local congregation? Not really. You're being punished. You're being shunned. This is to teach you a lesson and to scare you into not disobeying orders again.
...and I don't want to hear something that is "tickling my ears".
You won't get that here, I promise you.
If you haven't surmised by now, this is a primarily ex-JW board. Many here have gone through the pain of DFing and being shunned. They can relate to your feelings.
What many of them have done, though, is to research the teachings and doctrines of the WT society independant of the Society's publications. This has opened their eyes to the fact that this religion is a high control group.
DFing is not a "loving provision from Jehovah". It is a tactic used to keep followers in line or scare them back in line.
If you crave spiritual food, read the Bible. Read it and come to understand it on its own merit, not on what other people tell you it says.
If you really want to be reinstated, then follow the rules and you'll be reinstated in a few months. But do yourself a favor and do some research on the Society and JWs before getting sucked back in.