Wantstoleave stated: Ghost, you bring up a valid point. One I could use with my father, who resigned from his church when he became a Jw. His parents didn't abandon him or stop talking to him.
And you can take this line of reasoning one step further. Some JWs make statements such as "why can't ex-JWs just leave quietly--why do they have to criticize the Society after they've left?"
Well, isn't that exactly what Witnesses do after they leave their former church? Don't they go door-to-door telling people that other religions (including their former faith) are part of "Babylon the Great" and will be destroyed by God very soon? Don't they try to get their former church members to leave the church and join the JW religion?