In reverse for me- pre jw years- stay in bed possibly enjoying married life, make a yummy breakfast , get kids up to go for a hike or take them to the Y for their Sat morn game, or go antiquing or into the city come home for supper then either games, movies and a fire, send kids to bed, time to open the wine sit outside and watch the stars!
Now- get up before him and check jwn, email, etc., disappear somewhere while he is getting ready because I don't even like to see him in his jw uniform, he leaves for at least 3 hrs and goes around the town I live in annoying people and at times knocking on a door with some 'sister' or children who are not his own just to confuse people when we may actually be together in town somewhere, I either stay home and do chores, work, computer or go to breakfast with friends, kids are older now and one is out of the house the other off doing their own thing. By the time jw gets home more than 1/2 the day is gone and I may not feel like spending much time with him depending on his frame of mind after spending 3-4 hours with jw's. The next day is Sunday, another 3-4 hours with jw's first thing in the morning making it difficult to plan for the once long standing tradition of entertaining for Sun football. blah.... damn cult.
Then there is the rare chance he may skip out and do something fun! when he used to do this we would all speculate why? and it would raise our hopes that maybe, just maybe he is having doubts? no such luck, but still go along with fun activity because at least it keeps him out of the khell for one day.