He is being LAME!
Seriously my freakin' COBOE has a whole assortment of pumpkins and gourds by his door! Hell his wife loves making little gourds into hanging lanterns via artistic scroll work from watching Martha Stewart!
I say you go and by some extra gourds, pumpkins and Indian corn.....maybe arrange them artfully on some hay bales!
Tell him I have all that along with some squash, zucs and a whole family of scarecrow......and I got lots of praise from the Bro/Sis for it being tasteful but not 'pagan'.
If he continues to protest.....remind him he isn't baptized or even in good standing, further he has no right to limit your freedom of expression.
Remind him:
(1 Corinthians 8:4-6) 4 Now concerning the eating of foods offered to idols, we know that an idol is nothing in the world, and that there is no God but one. 5 For even though there are those who are called “gods,” whether in heaven or on earth, just as there are many “gods” and many “lords,” 6 there is actually to us one God the Father, out of whom all things are, and we for him; and there is one Lord, Jesus Christ, through whom all things are, and we through him.
Pause and say a pumpkin is not pagan, a jack o latern especially made from turnips are according to WTS tradition. Then admonish him for be like a pharisee and going beyond where the bible is silent..... there are no pumpkins found in the Bible.
Than make lots of pumpkin dishes to drive home the point that pumpkins are food.
I like Pumpkin ravioli myself!