Sorry about the sad news, void eater. There's no definitive answer to this one.
While I do not disagree with any of the points made by my fellow posters, I have nonetheless always found a nebulous sort of comfort from the following:
"[...] But undoubtedly the most frequent answer [previous discussion on
Jehovah's past, overt response to his people's prayers] was not so easily
discernible, since it related to giving moral strength and enlightenment,
enabling the person to hold to a righteous course and carry out divinely
assigned work. Particularly for the Christian the answer to prayers involved
matters mainly spiritual, not as spectacular as some powerful acts of God in
earlier times, but equally vital."
Aid to Bible Understanding, THE ANSWERING OF PRAYERS, page 1331.
It's a pleasure to have you back.
All the best to you and yours,
CoCo