My daughter is 18 and goes to meetings from time-to-time basically to mess with the Dubs (she always wears mini-skirts) and keep up on gossip....She actually filled me in on this but I find it amusing.
Sister "Elly" (we'll just call her that) the buxom vixen of our Spanish Congo suddenly stopped showing up to meetings. My curiosity became aroused when not one single person asked her Mom about her!
Her Mom and Step-Dad are Super-Dubs, the kind who take it personally if a child draws pictures during the meeting rather than sit ram-rod straight, if a Bro uses the john more than once, or if a Sister "forgets" her hose. When that happens, they are ALL-over it with the Elders. Notice I said "Step-Dad". Super Dub Mom is a divorcee.
Sister Elly is 18ish, going on WOW! Think Jennifer Lopez rear. One day she just sprouted; BAM!
Mom and Dad began to rush looking for an appropriate Dub for her since the non-Bros were starting to take notice. Like the owners of a fine cow looking for a bull they inspected and discounted Brother after Brother. Brother Juan Carlos, too poor, Brother Eli too young etc. They finally located the perfect Bro in a congregation over 80 miles from their house and started the process to pair them.
Turns out Lil Sister's Black non-Dub boyfriend already knocked 'er up! He is currently in jail so no support there. Sister Elly was quietly disassociated and her Mom threw both her and her grand-child to be out of the house to avoid bad association.