Abbadon! Who is this friend of yours! A South African! At last! I love exclamation marks! Don't you!
"I see no good reasons why the views given in this volume should shock the religious sensibilities of anyone." -- Charles Darwin, The Origin Of Species, 1869.
I don't know if her South African-ness had anything to do with her rather masculine approach to sexuality. Subtle was not a word in her vocabulary though.
However, the prize for unsubtlty goes to a girl a friend of mine met in Australia, who allegedly said to him (upon exiting a pub after much beer), "Look, do you wanna come home with me? I'm on the blob, but you can always stick it up the $hitter instead".
People living in glass paradigms shouldn't throw stones...