I agree with happy guy...... good morals, not smoking crack, not being a criminal or a whore etc. etc. has nothing to do with being part of the org. My MIL once said to me when I was leaving...."but the Organization changes people..." to which I replied at the time......"No, its the Bible that does that".
But there are so many people the world over who are just normal, decent, law abiding folks who actually have great humanity about them. There are so many people who do great work for charity or who are well known in their neighbourhood for their good deeds and helping others........ but are they all part of some religion? Do they all believe in God even? Is it possible to be a good guy without a belief in God? Doesnt that mean that all the prisons should be full of atheists? But are they? No! Athiests are good guys too.
JWs like to believe they are better than everyone else, which is why they are so haughty and judgemental. They are taught to think like this by their leaders. But their leaders are some of the most immoral people on the planet and should be shown up for the crimals they are. They have murdered people in their thousands through their teachings.....(eg) blood policy and transplant teaching. They allow children to be abused....by not protecting them.....and allowing paedophiles to roam free within the org. because of the heinous rule of having two witnesses to their crimes.
So please dont think that you turned out the way you have because of this org. Maybe you're just like that as a person in the first place ,and living your life without the org. may not have made a blind bit of difference to how you turned out.