I know of two superfine JW's in my cong' (women) that put the pressure on two couples.
The couples were in the initial delicate, easily embarrasing stages of 'getting to know each other' & the 'superfine' JW women told the ladies of the couples they should find out 'what the chaps intentions were' ie whether his intentions were to marry them or not.
Naturally this snubbed out any spontaneity the couples had with each other & the relationships fizzled out.
Trouble is the 'superfines' thought they had done the right thing!
Ed