Lekore,
Perhaps there's a bit of a language or culture barrier here. If so, please bear with me while I point out what I take issue with.
First off, you come into a new community of posters and say "you must all".
It doesn't matter what comes after "you must all". Those words hit me as condescending, arrogant and controlling. I'm sure you didn't intend it that way, but that's how it reads to me. Especially when they are posted on a board of people who have left or are leaving a high-control religion like the JWs.
Second, the semantics surrounding the word "cult" have been debated to death on this board. To come on here and say that "your using the wrong word" is also hard to take. Especially on a word that is currently in flux as to its definition.
From dictionary.com:
1. | a particular system of religious worship, esp. with reference to its rites and ceremonies. |
2. | an instance of great veneration of a person, ideal, or thing, esp. as manifested by a body of admirers: the physical fitness cult. |
3. | the object of such devotion. |
4. | a group or sect bound together by veneration of the same thing, person, ideal, etc. |
5. | Sociology . a group having a sacred ideology and a set of rites centering around their sacred symbols. |
6. | a religion or sect considered to be false, unorthodox, or extremist, with members often living outside of conventional society under the direction of a charismatic leader. |
7. | the members of such a religion or sect. |
8. | any system for treating human sickness that originated by a person usually claiming to have sole insight into the nature of disease, and that employs methods regarded as unorthodox or unscientific. |
–adjective
9. | of or pertaining to a cult. |
10. | of, for, or attracting a small group of devotees: a cult movie. |
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My Webster's has a similar list of definitions. I'm the first to admit that the dictionary's need to be updated and that the more negative definitions should be moved closer to the top of the list. But given that only 2 out of 10 of the definitions in the dictionary have negative connotations, do you see how your comment:
"your using the wrong word"
could be just a tad bit ire-raising?
All right. Enough grousing over choice of words.
Welcome again to the forum. I truly lo