ASphere, here is a quote that brother was using..."it's your choice but..."
*** w66 7/1 pp. 415-416 Questions From Readers ***Some Christians have viewed childlessness or the having of fewer children to be a circumstance allowing them more time for the service of Jehovah God. Childless couples, for instance, do not have the responsibilities that go with the rearing of children and thus have greater opportunities to expend their time and energies in the direct pursuit of Kingdom interests.—Matt. 6:33.