OMG i did not just have a two hour WT fight with my wife again!!!!

oompa

Damm this snow!!!....i mean i am separated and all but this is the second snow where i wind up back home for the night (mostly non-sexual)...i mean separation does give you time for second thoughts but damm!!!!!.....we had a contract practically to NEVER do this again...but she looked at me and said "so what are we going to do...what is going to happen with us".....so i went with it....and OMG it was like a nightmare of every WT JW argument rolled into one!!!!!!......why does it matter to her...why does it matter to me?.......geeze just leave it alone!!!...

nightmare of a day....hard crying and all.....no matter what i will NEVER engage her again in any religious conversation....much less debate...never....and i made her promise to that too...............oompa

i just want to go lay in the icy creek

oompa

stoopid....stoopid....stoopid....stoopid....stoopid!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

damm them damm them damm them damm them

Robdar

IMO, you would have better spent your time lying on the icy creek.

(((((oompa)))))

daniel-p

Religious arguments are just not worth it if you want any semblance of peace, within or without a marriage.

Hang in there.

In

That sucks. With a dub, they just want you to say that they are right. Really, that's all they want. (It's what most people want)

SO

Try this line: I'm sorry, you're right.

And they say: "Then act like it" or something like that...

And you say: I'm going to work on it. You've been right all along. I'm sorry.

Then smile and offer a glass of wine/cup of hot choco/ something they like... or just go take a piss...

It's hard to argue with that.

AllTimeJeff

Oompa, I can tell you still love her, and that is in spite of the seperation. It is heartbreaking to realize that a cult religion means more then you do, esp when you still care.

Every time I saw my ex after I left everything it would upset me horribly. Sorry about the bad time.

chickpea

tough to read...
impossible to imagine

flipper

OOMPA- Arguing with a J-dub is like pissing into the wind. We just get wet yellow urine back in our face. Useless. I'm sorry you are going through this but from what you wrote your wife stated " so what are we going to do... what is going to happen with us " ? It sounds like there is more concern than just J-dub stuff on her mind. Sounds to me like she is wanting closure on whether you and her are going to be married or divorced. She may be tired of the in-between stage as I'm sure it is tiring for you as well. All I can say is I feel for both of you. The decision you both make will need to be made with both your input as to what is best for both of your futures. I wish you the best

OUTLAW

Nail a Goats Head to the front door..

That should calm her down..

..................... ...OUTLAW

thetrueone

Jeff just said what I had in mind to say, anyways Oompa just take the experience has a lessen.

Maybe this event warrants an apology to your still-in wife, she simple cant understand or comprehend the corruption of this publishing Corporation.

It might be appropriate from now on to socialize with her on non-religious matters, this is all possible ..... honestly.

Take care

OMG i did not just have a two hour WT fight with my wife again!!!!

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