oompa,
I asked this question because this is still fairly new to me. For all the years prior, she was perfectly okay with and even encouraged our celebrating the holidays. I guess she got tired of working so hard, feeling like she is going to die by celebrating them, and I was taking them for granted. So now she is going back to the bOrg and shunning the holidays thinking that this will get her to paradise.
She seems to appreciate it but if ever came the time when she did not I will just do for myself and my daughter. Got to make sure she does not get sucked in as best as I can.