The website that finally opened my eyes to the WT's lies was this one: http://www.towerwatch.com/Testimonies/judicial_committee_meeting.htm
It is an EXCELLENT read. I even wrote to the guy, James Caputo, to show appreciation for his courage to post his story on the WWW all those years ago when there weren't yet a ton of ex-JW sites. He's brilliant. This site laid the foundation for my exit. I practically owe him my life!
I think if anyone has a doubting family member, this would be a great read for them.